- A lady identified as Bibi Udoh has left a lot of people touched with her heartbreaking experience
- According to her post, she suffered domestic violence in the hands of her ex-husband and father of her kids
- She eventually left the relationship after many near death experiences
The issue of domestic violence in the society is one that has been debated for over many years. While more people are coming out to speak on their experience of these despicable acts, the issue only seems to be on the rise leading to a lot of broken homes with single parents and in some cases, psychologically damaged children as well.
Earlier on, NAIJ.com carried out a poll in order to find out why single men don't like dating single mothers. While there were several responses leaning towards the fact that most single mothers come with baggage and responsibilities. The general undertone was the belief that most women choose to be single mothers which more or less, reflects badly on them.
In the light of countering what she believed to be a fallacy, a Nigerian lady simply identified as Bibi Udoh left a lot of people in tears after she shared her heartbreaking experience in an abusive relationships. In her post, she revealed how she was orphaned as a teenager and forced to marry a man who verbally and physically abused her. After several life threatening abuse from him, she eventually left him and moved on to a better life herself and her sons.
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Model Source: Instagram
She wrote:"After reading through all the comments here, am forced to tell my story. Am a proud single mother. Proud because I took a bold step to be alive today. Nobody prays to be a single mother. I was orphaned in my teenage years and according to elders advice, I should look for a relationship that would take care of me. What did I know about relationships? I experience hell on earth but chose to endure because I never wanted to be a single mother, my mom wasn't. I endured severe beatings with crucial injuries and most times in front of my kid's. People adviced me to go away so he doesn't kill me and run but I hoped in prayer so I prayed. But most times, God doesn't answer the way we expect. My siblings were forbidden to visit and I wasn't permitted to visit them. Then one day, my sis came to visit and before we could part, he came back n saw her. Hell was let lose. I was beaten black n blue. My sister ran out of fear.
Model Source: Instagram
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After being strangled for 5mins and feeling life go out of me, I was luckily rescued by a neighbour. I ran n hide in my neighbors house who helped me to move. I thought I would die but to cut the long story short, I am very happy I left. I am a better person today, am achieving my goals, have seen myself through school, my boys are healthy, happy and full of life. They are doing well in sch too. I have peace in an overwhelming proportion. And for those saying u r scared of responsibilities, am not cos I plan my life well. I pay my rent before it's due, I pay kid's fees before fee drive cos I hate embarrassment. I only cut down on unnecessary expenses like over the top expensive clothes, makeup n stuff. Am on the verge of publishing my books. In a but shell, my life makes meaning now.
See her post below:
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At what point should a person walk out of an abusive relationship?
Source: Gossip.naija.ng